Father’s Day – where did it all begin?
Mother’s Day (in March) is always very busy at La Barbe, but now we are looking forward to welcoming the dads from around Reigate, Surrey and beyond on Father’s Day, which this year is on June 19th. There do seem to be a lot of “days” now. Apparently, there’s even a Chocolate Cake Day! That’s perhaps going a bit far … we don’t get many chocolate cakes being brought to La Barbe to celebrate their special day. But when it comes to Father’s Day – well, I do believe that is worth celebrating, and not just because I’m a father myself.
Where did Father’s Day originate?
With a nose for knowledge, and perhaps to justify to myself that “Father’s Day” is a valid day of celebration, and not just a piece of commercialism, I decided to do a bit of research into its origins. What I discovered is that actually the origin of father’s day is a meeting between a commercial transaction and a personal story!
The origin of Father’s Day sees its roots in the United States where it was instituted by President Calvin Coolidge in 1910. The idea of establishing Father’s Day comes from one Sonora Louise Smart Dodd. The mother of Sonora being dead, her father William Smart raised his six children on their farm on its own. Sonora Smart Dodd decided to work towards the institution of a day of tribute to all the fathers in the United States. She filed her initial application in 1909. The first celebration of father’s day took place on June 19, 1910 in Washington State and some other neighbouring States.
In 1924, President Calvin Coolidge proposed that this holiday becomes national, but it wasn’t until 1966 that President Lyndon Johnson signed a presidential statement which establishes at national level the third Sunday of June as Fathers’ Day.
From the flames of commercialism – La Fete des Peres
In France, Father’s Day is celebrated on the third Sunday of June like in the UK and is a family occasion. Family and friends are invited for a meal to honour the father and usually the grandfather too. Fathers are pampered and presented with gifts and made to feel like a king, at least for the day.
It is known as La Fete des Pères and was actually launched by a lighter company called Flaminaire – they were obviously hoping to sell lots of lighters! – before being formalised in 1952. So although in my country, the day did originally come out of a commercial ambition, its flames were fanned by a real desire to celebrate fathers. For me, anything that brings families together is worth supporting. And there’s nothing like seeing whole families sitting around a large table, enjoying a meal, to warm the cockles of this family man’s heart. Do you agree?
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